<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632</id><updated>2011-08-02T02:21:17.687+08:00</updated><category term='Emotions'/><category term='squeak'/><category term='news'/><category term='movies'/><category term='books'/><category term='Friends'/><category term='Shook'/><category term='cadets'/><category term='Winning Attitude'/><category term='Games'/><category term='Supernatural'/><category term='Telekom'/><category term='charity'/><category term='TV show'/><category term='Valentine&apos;s'/><category term='celebrity'/><category term='family'/><category term='video'/><category term='Athena'/><category term='heroes'/><category term='work'/><category term='rant'/><category term='Prison Break'/><category term='ramble'/><category term='story'/><category term='meme'/><category term='singing'/><category term='reflections'/><category term='musicals'/><category term='vacation'/><category term='Christmas'/><category term='Tech'/><category term='music'/><category term='Thursday Challenge'/><category term='World AIDS Day'/><category term='Yodie'/><category term='InternetExplorer7'/><category term='CNY'/><category term='quiz'/><category term='trip'/><category term='NinjaDay2006'/><category term='quickie'/><category term='dreams'/><category term='Academy'/><category term='this and that'/><category term='Squee'/><category term='toastmaster'/><category term='Photo Friday'/><category term='legend'/><title type='text'>The Randomness of Me</title><subtitle type='html'></subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><link rel='next' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default?start-index=101&amp;max-results=100'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>553</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-5673447253453232625</id><published>2011-02-17T09:09:00.001+08:00</published><updated>2011-02-17T09:09:42.583+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='this and that'/><title type='text'>Different, aren't we all?</title><summary type='text'>When I create anything, be it a wallpaper or a drawing, I always make sure there are borders. Everything is in its place and there is a place for everything. I also plan where I place a picture. In other words, I can be very structured when I'm working.    My youngest sister can be the opposite. She is creative but in a very chaotic manner. Well, to me, at least. She swears it's the latest trend.</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/5673447253453232625/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2011/02/different-aren-we-all.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/5673447253453232625'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/5673447253453232625'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2011/02/different-aren-we-all.html' title='Different, aren&amp;#39;t we all?'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-4892550909945356974</id><published>2011-02-16T21:48:00.000+08:00</published><updated>2011-02-16T21:48:00.187+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='this and that'/><title type='text'>To err is human</title><summary type='text'>I have seen many kinds of people. Some I interacted with, even liked, while some I just knew from a distance. I have seen them make mistakes and I have seen some of  them learn from their mistakes. The humbler ones even admitted to committing those mistakes and were big enough to apologise for them. The not-so-humble ones either never admitted upon knowing or just went their merry way feeling </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/4892550909945356974/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2011/02/to-err-is-human.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/4892550909945356974'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/4892550909945356974'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2011/02/to-err-is-human.html' title='To err is human'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-442341874712789457</id><published>2010-07-22T18:41:00.000+08:00</published><updated>2010-07-22T18:41:30.626+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='this and that'/><title type='text'>Tears of a child</title><summary type='text'>I think children seldom consider how their actions and words can affect their parents. Unless you have parents like mine who will either smack you for a bad word or action or give you the dressing down of your life. Having said that, I also think the reverse also happens. Parents sometimes don't seem to consider how their actions and words can affect their children.I know parents believe that </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/442341874712789457/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2010/07/tears-of-child.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/442341874712789457'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/442341874712789457'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2010/07/tears-of-child.html' title='Tears of a child'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-3302273776949132224</id><published>2010-01-24T16:30:00.000+08:00</published><updated>2010-01-24T16:30:47.806+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Judging a book by its cover</title><summary type='text'>
When Times at Parkson shut down, I still kept my membership because I knew I would go to KL often enough to make it worth it.

However, I was a wee bit miffed when the birthday card came from them after I got back from KL and it was valid only within the month of my birthday.

Much to my utter joy, the Times at the Hills opened and I had another bookstore to haunt. So I went there a few days </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/3302273776949132224/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2010/01/judging-book-by-its-cover.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/3302273776949132224'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/3302273776949132224'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2010/01/judging-book-by-its-cover.html' title='Judging a book by its cover'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_Ts3wO3ZwNLk/S1wEApkgblI/AAAAAAAAAI4/kUd5jDjTTM8/s72-c/son+of+a+witch.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-7461515484167567228</id><published>2009-10-15T18:00:00.001+08:00</published><updated>2009-10-15T18:03:55.023+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='this and that'/><title type='text'>To move or not to move</title><summary type='text'>I've been considering moving to my LiveJournal. I really do like how the LiveJournal is set up. Okay, I'm being a girl when I say that I really like how I can make my blog look pretty at the drop of a pin (or in this case, with a quick CSS tweak).And I can lock it up when I want to while leaving it wide open if I choose to.But....(yes, always a 'but')To get the full feeling of LJ, I might need to</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/7461515484167567228/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/10/to-move-or-not-to-move.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/7461515484167567228'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/7461515484167567228'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/10/to-move-or-not-to-move.html' title='To move or not to move'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-1171966267681540111</id><published>2009-09-18T10:28:00.003+08:00</published><updated>2009-09-20T08:17:28.062+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='this and that'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Friends'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Shook'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='musicals'/><title type='text'>I believe...</title><summary type='text'>I believe that there more there is at stake, the more effort you should put into it.What am I talking about?When I first started dating Shook, I wasn't hoping to get married. I was just trying out this dating thing. But the one thing I never forgot was to treat his mother well and with respect. So, although in my mind I was not thinking of marrying him, I still behaved like a good </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/1171966267681540111/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/09/i-believe.html#comment-form' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/1171966267681540111'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/1171966267681540111'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/09/i-believe.html' title='I believe...'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-2138627756560391855</id><published>2009-09-15T17:08:00.002+08:00</published><updated>2009-09-15T17:13:30.973+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='movies'/><title type='text'>Nobody puts Baby in a corner</title><summary type='text'>I don't think I need to say more.I loved the movie. It was part of a ritual my housemates and I had in the US. We'd watch Dirty Dancing about once a month. It was usually the time that all of us were at the house at the same. It was our quality time together. And we all looked forward to it. Always. Well, I did.I'm sad he's gone. While he never made it into the big league of Hollywood, he was </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/2138627756560391855/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/09/nobody-puts-baby-in-corner.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/2138627756560391855'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/2138627756560391855'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/09/nobody-puts-baby-in-corner.html' title='Nobody puts Baby in a corner'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-1347878955338873544</id><published>2009-09-04T17:57:00.002+08:00</published><updated>2009-09-04T18:10:06.050+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Games'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='movies'/><title type='text'>Of movies and games</title><summary type='text'>Thanks to Gette and Shook, I am now looking forward to two things.1) Hot men who just seem to make really funny movies when they set their minds to it.I love the hooker budget and the fact that George Clooney is a Jedi!! Shook made me watch the trailer. Now, not only do I want to watch the movie, I want to own the dvd!2) The only multi player game that I am rather excited about. Gette, we're on </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/1347878955338873544/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/09/of-movies-and-games.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/1347878955338873544'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/1347878955338873544'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/09/of-movies-and-games.html' title='Of movies and games'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-833022621987558287</id><published>2009-08-17T20:00:00.001+08:00</published><updated>2009-08-17T20:02:16.856+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='this and that'/><title type='text'>Want. To. Blog.</title><summary type='text'>But! So little time, so many thoughts to share.I think I'll share next week. When I have holidays and I cannot eat so I have more, more time to do many, many other things.Like blog. And buy books. And organise my music files. And play The Sims 3!!</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/833022621987558287/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/08/want-to-blog.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/833022621987558287'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/833022621987558287'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/08/want-to-blog.html' title='Want. To. Blog.'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-6598214244311587919</id><published>2009-07-17T15:57:00.002+08:00</published><updated>2009-07-17T16:15:46.821+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='this and that'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Athena'/><title type='text'>Weekend</title><summary type='text'>I haven't been here for awhile.Nothing different is going on with me. It's just that by the time I get back from work, I'm not thinking of the computer or the internet. My priority then is Athena. Since I spend all day away from her, I like to use the evenings to catch up on anything I'd missed out. Sometimes, I wish some people would remember that instead of assuming I am always available to run</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/6598214244311587919/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/07/weekend.html#comment-form' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/6598214244311587919'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/6598214244311587919'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/07/weekend.html' title='Weekend'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-8124576619797278998</id><published>2009-07-05T16:49:00.002+08:00</published><updated>2009-07-05T16:51:49.190+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='singing'/><title type='text'>Is the Rainbow within reach?</title><summary type='text'>We're supposed to end up sounding like this. I'm just going with the flow.</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/8124576619797278998/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/07/is-rainbow-within-reach.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/8124576619797278998'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/8124576619797278998'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/07/is-rainbow-within-reach.html' title='Is the Rainbow within reach?'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-2324815232193778707</id><published>2009-06-30T18:22:00.001+08:00</published><updated>2009-06-30T20:08:06.686+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='video'/><title type='text'>And Then Buffy Staked Edward</title><summary type='text'>I love this video. Makes me want to get the shirt even more.</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/2324815232193778707/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/06/and-then-buffy-staked-edward.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/2324815232193778707'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/2324815232193778707'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/06/and-then-buffy-staked-edward.html' title='And Then Buffy Staked Edward'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-9002117846551013247</id><published>2009-06-08T21:51:00.004+08:00</published><updated>2009-06-08T22:02:21.518+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Tech'/><title type='text'>Tech stuff</title><summary type='text'>So I went out and bought myself a new graphics card. Nothing too flashy. Just the NVidia 9800 GT. Pretty inexpensive at about RM569, I think. Only thing is it requires a bigger power supply as my current one is only running at 350 watts. The card needs at least a 550watts power supply. So I'll do that tomorrow.I also got a 2Gb RAM so my pc is currently running on 3 Gigs of RAM and a 4Gb Kingston </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/9002117846551013247/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/06/tech-stuff.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/9002117846551013247'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/9002117846551013247'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/06/tech-stuff.html' title='Tech stuff'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-6356322865931689862</id><published>2009-06-07T20:29:00.003+08:00</published><updated>2009-06-07T20:40:02.663+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Games'/><title type='text'>It's official!</title><summary type='text'>As of today, I have officially become a supporter of and contributor to Electronic Arts.After much texting to my youngest sister in Dubai, she finally messaged me and said my mom bought me an original copy of The Sims 3. Even after I told her that I had bought a dubious copy already to test my system with. But since they've already got it for me, I guess I can now sign up at the website and </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/6356322865931689862/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/06/its-official.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/6356322865931689862'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/6356322865931689862'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/06/its-official.html' title='It&apos;s official!'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-6042135237945993026</id><published>2009-06-07T11:07:00.004+08:00</published><updated>2009-06-07T11:25:01.569+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Games'/><title type='text'>Gah! Why, EA, why?!</title><summary type='text'>I have been waiting for The Sims 3 since last year. Despite knowing how Americans write their dates, I was excited enough that I once got fooled by someone into thinking it was coming out in February instead of June.I am serious enough about Sims that I am prepared to buy the original game. Not pirated, not copied. I figured since I love it so much, I should at least get one original version </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/6042135237945993026/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/06/gah-why-ea-why.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/6042135237945993026'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/6042135237945993026'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/06/gah-why-ea-why.html' title='Gah! Why, EA, why?!'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_Ts3wO3ZwNLk/SisyteS6DqI/AAAAAAAAAIE/Iplmc2aWqcY/s72-c/sims+traits.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-3531385473030042416</id><published>2009-06-06T14:47:00.002+08:00</published><updated>2009-06-06T14:50:53.447+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='TV show'/><title type='text'>Face-off!</title><summary type='text'>When Shook came home for a break this last week, he showed me an episode from the show Deadliest Warrior. It was the Green Beret vs Spetsnaz episode. I found it very interesting. I'm not sure if they've ever had a face-off in real life but on the show, they did. This was episode 6. There has been about 9 or ten episodes so far. I've only watched the Green Berets episode and the Yakuza vs Mafia </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/3531385473030042416/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/06/face-off.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/3531385473030042416'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/3531385473030042416'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/06/face-off.html' title='Face-off!'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-4809020388353713730</id><published>2009-06-03T14:35:00.003+08:00</published><updated>2009-06-03T14:49:06.927+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='movies'/><title type='text'>Number 4s</title><summary type='text'>I went to watch Terminator Salvation yesterday with Shook. I've been planning to watch it this holiday anyway so yesterday we took time out from Athena and went.All I can say is that the fourth movie in any series tend to get to me. I used to watch movies a lot with my father so movies like Terminator, Predator and Rambo were the norm.When I watched Rambo 4, I cried at the end. It is sad when you</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/4809020388353713730/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/06/number-4s.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/4809020388353713730'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/4809020388353713730'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/06/number-4s.html' title='Number 4s'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-5020087260824140210</id><published>2009-06-02T22:18:00.002+08:00</published><updated>2009-06-02T22:52:18.518+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='rant'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='this and that'/><title type='text'>Call a spade a spade, please</title><summary type='text'>One thing has been bothering me the past few days. Well, I read about it last week and have not seen anything else about it. I hope this means that someone has been shown the error of his statement and has been asked to be realistic about it.For years now, we have nicely called the Mat Rempits as Mat Rempits. Basically, they are motorcyclists who race illegally on the streets usually at night. At</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/5020087260824140210/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/06/call-spade-spade-please.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/5020087260824140210'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/5020087260824140210'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/06/call-spade-spade-please.html' title='Call a spade a spade, please'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-4901030745207150389</id><published>2009-05-30T08:17:00.003+08:00</published><updated>2009-05-30T08:19:04.520+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='this and that'/><title type='text'>Today</title><summary type='text'>The holidays have officially started for me, my husband is home and I have time to do everything I've been wanting to do.Life looks good for now.</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/4901030745207150389/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/05/today.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/4901030745207150389'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/4901030745207150389'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/05/today.html' title='Today'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-667456275183279126</id><published>2009-05-21T20:36:00.001+08:00</published><updated>2009-05-21T21:30:31.878+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='reflections'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='story'/><title type='text'>If wishes were gold</title><summary type='text'>For as long as I can remember, there is one thing I have ever wanted to do, and do well. And that is to write.Someone simple-minded might say - "You can write." To which I will only reply - "If that is what you believe, then you have never read."At one point in my life, I contemplated writing for a living. And I'm sure many friends in my circle of friends have thought the same at one point in </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/667456275183279126/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/05/if-wishes-were-gold.html#comment-form' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/667456275183279126'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/667456275183279126'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/05/if-wishes-were-gold.html' title='If wishes were gold'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-7623722950929183638</id><published>2009-04-29T17:56:00.002+08:00</published><updated>2009-04-29T18:00:11.722+08:00</updated><title type='text'>She will be missed</title><summary type='text'>Today, we lost a person who cared for our environment, who fought for our trees as best she could, who lived facing a lot of odds and who was loved by all who were close to her.Inna lillah wa inna 'ilayhi raji'un</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/7623722950929183638/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/04/she-will-be-missed.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/7623722950929183638'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/7623722950929183638'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/04/she-will-be-missed.html' title='She will be missed'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-3498460157948240173</id><published>2009-04-26T16:32:00.004+08:00</published><updated>2009-04-26T18:12:16.162+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='this and that'/><title type='text'>An 'I' post</title><summary type='text'>I finally got round to watching Twilight. Actually, I just started but I've been distracted so far by 1) a tummy ache, 2) Athena and 3) Athena's bath time. I will finish watching it eventually.I uploaded all 2300+ photos from my camera into my computer which I will then back-up to the external hard disc. And then I will make copies on DVD. Of course I have to be careful because about 2000 photos </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/3498460157948240173/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/04/i-post.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/3498460157948240173'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/3498460157948240173'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/04/i-post.html' title='An &apos;I&apos; post'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-5062610824054891790</id><published>2009-04-06T13:51:00.003+08:00</published><updated>2009-04-06T14:08:59.080+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Old-fashioned</title><summary type='text'>I am an odd person. (And before some smarty pants decides to crack a joke about it, hear me out first!)I have had my eye on Amazon's Kindle 2 for awhile now. Over the weekend, I decided to seriosuly look into it and discovered that they are not available outside the US. So I began to look at other alternatives. I then remembered I have a PDA sitting around doing nothing so I decided to use it as </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/5062610824054891790/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/04/old-fashioned.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/5062610824054891790'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/5062610824054891790'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/04/old-fashioned.html' title='Old-fashioned'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-937388055448660309</id><published>2009-04-02T15:06:00.001+08:00</published><updated>2009-04-02T15:11:30.581+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='story'/><title type='text'>Issues</title><summary type='text'>Could someone tell me if there are any copyright issues or even issues of any kind in regards to a story that has been published online e.g. on a blog?I thought I once read somewhere that it can be difficult to get a story published once it has been posted online. I might be wrong but I really would like some clarification.This question is the reason I stopped posting any stories I wrote. I am </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/937388055448660309/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/04/issues.html#comment-form' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/937388055448660309'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/937388055448660309'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/04/issues.html' title='Issues'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-7311339020618796511</id><published>2009-03-30T14:01:00.004+08:00</published><updated>2009-03-30T14:19:30.976+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='rant'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='ramble'/><title type='text'>Meow...</title><summary type='text'>I admit to being a wee bit bitchy over the weekend. Hey, cut me some slack. If you have a 6 month-old baby who gets feverish when she's angry or at intervals during the day or night and she is starting to pick and choose who she likes or does not like based on how often she sees the people around her or if you've had a total of maybe 8 hours sleep within 60 hours, maybe you'd be bitchy too. Not </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/7311339020618796511/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/03/meow.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/7311339020618796511'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/7311339020618796511'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/03/meow.html' title='Meow...'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-6339087926020648678</id><published>2009-03-21T20:11:00.001+08:00</published><updated>2009-03-21T20:12:15.634+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='this and that'/><title type='text'>Sudden need for a little change</title><summary type='text'>After years of looking at the same blog layout, today I decided to change it. I'm not sure what brought along the need for change but once I got started on it, I couldn't stop until I was done.Yet, even now, I'm not completely satisfied with it. More changes to come, I suppose.Listening to: Runaway - The Corrs - Unplugged</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/6339087926020648678/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/03/after-years-of-looking-at-same-blog.html#comment-form' title='5 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/6339087926020648678'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/6339087926020648678'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/03/after-years-of-looking-at-same-blog.html' title='Sudden need for a little change'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>5</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-4872829008367597028</id><published>2009-03-19T13:43:00.001+08:00</published><updated>2009-03-19T13:54:12.244+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='this and that'/><title type='text'>Earth Hour is upon us</title><summary type='text'></summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/4872829008367597028/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/03/earth-hour-is-upon-us.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/4872829008367597028'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/4872829008367597028'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/03/earth-hour-is-upon-us.html' title='Earth Hour is upon us'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-2515974195577301250</id><published>2009-03-17T15:02:00.002+08:00</published><updated>2009-03-17T15:05:08.787+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='this and that'/><title type='text'>Believe it?</title><summary type='text'>I have a few stories to tell. But the one that sticks most in my mind is of a girl. Technically, she is old enough to be called a woman but she seriously lacks the maturity usually associated with women. In fact, if I wanted to be more accurate, I would call her a spoilt brat. I just can't believe someone like her exists. But then, it takes many types to make this world go round and she is just </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/2515974195577301250/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/03/i-have-few-stories-to-tell.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/2515974195577301250'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/2515974195577301250'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/03/i-have-few-stories-to-tell.html' title='Believe it?'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-3988646756778063737</id><published>2009-03-02T18:12:00.002+08:00</published><updated>2009-03-02T18:22:34.136+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Games'/><title type='text'>Alice!!! At last!!</title><summary type='text'>I was so deliriously happy to see this piece of news. And to make things more whee worthy, I went and read this at the creator's own blog. American McGee's sequel to Alice, at last!!A person I used to call my friend got me hooked on American McGee's Alice the first time. Since then, I've played it and uninstalled it and then re-installed it to play it again. Some parts give me a horrible headache</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/3988646756778063737/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/03/alice-at-last.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/3988646756778063737'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/3988646756778063737'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/03/alice-at-last.html' title='Alice!!! At last!!'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-475438671703489309</id><published>2009-03-02T09:52:00.001+08:00</published><updated>2009-03-02T09:54:04.392+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='this and that'/><title type='text'>Another sudden urge</title><summary type='text'>I suddenly feel like starting a photo blog. I was thinking of using WordPress.Something to ponder on today.</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/475438671703489309/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/03/another-sudden-urge.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/475438671703489309'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/475438671703489309'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/03/another-sudden-urge.html' title='Another sudden urge'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-3277461267206333740</id><published>2009-02-10T13:53:00.007+08:00</published><updated>2009-02-10T14:10:34.523+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='this and that'/><title type='text'>Head hurts..</title><summary type='text'>I have been too tired or busy to produce a single coherent sentence that does not have to do with work. Hence my inability to blog. It's not as if I have created a quota for myself or anything. It's just that I look at my blog and I WANT to blog. I just don't know what to say.Everything is a jumble in my mind. It's as if there is a traffic jam in my brain somewhere and everything wants to come </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/3277461267206333740/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/02/head-hurts.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/3277461267206333740'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/3277461267206333740'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/02/head-hurts.html' title='Head hurts..'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-8724373904585250576</id><published>2009-01-22T13:03:00.003+08:00</published><updated>2009-01-22T15:08:13.096+08:00</updated><title type='text'>Unexpected gift</title><summary type='text'>No, I'm not pregnant again. Haha! Just thought I'd clarify that.Anyway, a few days ago, my father suddenly messaged me from China asking what I would want if I could have anything. If there is one question I don't like, that would be it. I have always hated being disappointed. So when I get a question like this, it just opens up that disappointment jar because the question has such a wide range </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/8724373904585250576/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/01/unexpected-gift.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/8724373904585250576'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/8724373904585250576'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/01/unexpected-gift.html' title='Unexpected gift'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-2352695749087035155</id><published>2009-01-14T18:07:00.001+08:00</published><updated>2009-01-14T18:09:46.906+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='story'/><title type='text'>When I want to, I can</title><summary type='text'>Last night, my muse showed up and bit me in my big, fat behind.So I withstood her pain until I had time at 2.00 p.m. today. Then within half an hour, I added 1,500 words to my story.And my fear now is that my muse still refuses to be silenced.So I guess I will hit the keyboard again when I can. Tonight.Listening to: SOS - Pierce Brosnan, Meryl Streep - Mamma Mia! - Soundtrack USA</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/2352695749087035155/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/01/when-i-want-to-i-can-last-night-my-muse.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/2352695749087035155'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/2352695749087035155'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/01/when-i-want-to-i-can-last-night-my-muse.html' title='When I want to, I can'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-6498516396480229923</id><published>2009-01-14T12:21:00.002+08:00</published><updated>2009-01-14T12:43:34.459+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='musicals'/><title type='text'>Thank you for the Music</title><summary type='text'>I've been wanting to write about this for ages but I just never had the time to put my thoughts together.After Christmas last year, my entire family (which of course includes Shook and Athena now) went to KL. For everyone else, it was a holiday. My sisters and I went to watch Mamma Mia!If there is ever one musical anyone has to watch at least once in their lifetime, I believe that Mamma Mia </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/6498516396480229923/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/01/thank-you-for-music.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/6498516396480229923'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/6498516396480229923'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2009/01/thank-you-for-music.html' title='Thank you for the Music'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-2712536157665230295</id><published>2008-12-18T11:22:00.003+08:00</published><updated>2008-12-18T12:07:47.355+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='meme'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='movies'/><title type='text'></title><summary type='text'>Took from Gette.Supposedly if you've seen over 85 films, you have no life. There are 270 films on this list. Copy it, paste it into a new post and then put x's next to the films you've seen. Add them up and post at the bottom. Have fun![x] 13 Going on 30[ ] 21 Grams[x] 28 days later[ ] 28 weeks later[x] 50 First Dates[x] A Beautiful Mind[] A Bronx Tale[x] A Cinderella Story[x] A Walk to Remember[</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/2712536157665230295/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/12/took-from-gette.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/2712536157665230295'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/2712536157665230295'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/12/took-from-gette.html' title=''/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-965744537585604166</id><published>2008-12-10T19:59:00.003+08:00</published><updated>2008-12-10T21:14:14.764+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='this and that'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='news'/><title type='text'>Help me understand</title><summary type='text'>Please correct me if I am wrong in my perception.Also, please don't think I am not sympathetic. I am always saddened by the loss of lives and even more saddened by the fact that greed overcame caution.However, I cannot understand why a massive fundraising was carried out to assist those who lost their homes in the Bukit Antarabangsa incident. I mean, even the spokesperson admitted that these were</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/965744537585604166/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/12/help-me-understand.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/965744537585604166'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/965744537585604166'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/12/help-me-understand.html' title='Help me understand'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-3772793288225850694</id><published>2008-12-01T16:16:00.002+08:00</published><updated>2008-12-01T16:30:37.182+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='news'/><title type='text'>Who's to blame, if any?</title><summary type='text'>I was reading about the two little girls who were killed in a landslide and my knee-jerk reaction was to penalise those loggers and quarry operators. I might even blame the person who agreed to build that house.You see, the landslide is said to could have been caused by the heavy rain. Yet, for as long as I've studied Science and Geography, I know that vegetation holds soil together to avoid such</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/3772793288225850694/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/12/whos-to-blame-if-any.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/3772793288225850694'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/3772793288225850694'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/12/whos-to-blame-if-any.html' title='Who&apos;s to blame, if any?'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-400314212068694538</id><published>2008-11-24T16:10:00.007+08:00</published><updated>2008-11-24T18:39:48.096+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><title type='text'>Shopping - such a rarity for me</title><summary type='text'>I was struck by a strong urge to go shopping today. So, after taking Nuril from her holiday programme classes, we went to The Spring. And, as per normal, we ended up at MPH. I decided that I might as well use my rebates while I was there. So, I ran around looking for any books which caught my eye.After taking some and putting back others and then taking some more and putting back what were in my </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/400314212068694538/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/11/shopping-such-rarity-for-me.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/400314212068694538'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/400314212068694538'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/11/shopping-such-rarity-for-me.html' title='Shopping - such a rarity for me'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_Ts3wO3ZwNLk/SSp2ycNdBpI/AAAAAAAAAGI/3JwZ-lmK-6g/s72-c/the+book+thief.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-5134506337726641736</id><published>2008-11-18T22:21:00.003+08:00</published><updated>2008-11-18T22:36:02.147+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='TV show'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Supernatural'/><title type='text'>Videos</title><summary type='text'>First up - my reason for this post.Now, I have always enjoyed Supernatural. In fact, I'm one of the very few people I know and see regularly who does watch Supernatural. I know why my guy friends refused to watch - the lack of any hot babes. However, I have to add that Seasons 3 and 4 are full of hot babes. At least, I think guys would call them hot babes.I started watching Supernatural because </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/5134506337726641736/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/11/videos.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/5134506337726641736'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/5134506337726641736'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/11/videos.html' title='Videos'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-9118858758629327012</id><published>2008-11-12T00:50:00.003+08:00</published><updated>2008-11-12T01:28:54.271+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='TV show'/><title type='text'>zip codes</title><summary type='text'>Because there was nothing else to watch tonight, I actually sat through part of an episode of 90210. It never caught my interest for the simple reasons that it looks shallow and I'm too old to be watching that.However, while watching it, it brought back way too many memories of Beverly Hills 90210. It got really weird for me when I felt excited seeing the Peach Pit where the old Beverly Hills </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/9118858758629327012/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/11/zip-codes.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/9118858758629327012'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/9118858758629327012'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/11/zip-codes.html' title='zip codes'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-8321120358409218291</id><published>2008-11-02T12:04:00.002+08:00</published><updated>2008-11-02T13:25:36.170+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='this and that'/><title type='text'>Thought about it</title><summary type='text'>I thought about joining NaNoWriMo. I've been contemplating it for years but the event happens during the busiest time of the year for me. And I didn't need a month long event to add to the already existing stress of my work.However, this year, I find myself having little to occupy my time during this month. I do still go into work at times to pick up some exam papers to mark or to key in reports </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/8321120358409218291/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/11/thought-about-it.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/8321120358409218291'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/8321120358409218291'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/11/thought-about-it.html' title='Thought about it'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-9125777928320516689</id><published>2008-10-28T15:55:00.003+08:00</published><updated>2008-10-28T16:07:37.069+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='this and that'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Athena'/><title type='text'>What is going on?</title><summary type='text'>When Athena was born, Shook went to National Registration Department to get her registered. However, when he got home, we both noticed that she is listed as a Malay in her birth certificate. So, figuring that we will need Shook around to prove that he is Melanau so that she could be listed as a Melanau, we waited until yesterday to get the paperwork done.All this time, we figured it was just </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/9125777928320516689/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/10/what-is-going-on.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/9125777928320516689'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/9125777928320516689'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/10/what-is-going-on.html' title='What is going on?'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-1644845341417844935</id><published>2008-10-21T13:54:00.002+08:00</published><updated>2008-10-21T13:58:29.103+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='this and that'/><title type='text'>Card games? Me?</title><summary type='text'>I actually saw one that caught my interest. It was featured in the Star newspaper last week but I never got the time to check it out.I really would like to play this but, like all card games, I'll need someone to play with. And considering that the card gamers I know would not have either the patience or the interest for this particular genre, I'm not sure who will play with me.I would really </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/1644845341417844935/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/10/card-games-me.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/1644845341417844935'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/1644845341417844935'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/10/card-games-me.html' title='Card games? Me?'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-4479508195425250284</id><published>2008-10-20T13:48:00.003+08:00</published><updated>2008-10-20T14:01:42.452+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='this and that'/><title type='text'>Mind I do or do not</title><summary type='text'>I really don't mind waking up every 3 hours at night. In fact, I rather enjoy it. It's the 'us' time Athena and I have. I don't mind the changing and the feeding. I do rather mind the crying because it sometimes scares me. I don't mind having to adjust the air-con temperature a lot because she gets cranky if it's too hot or too cold.But I do really mind when people expect me to be awake in the </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/4479508195425250284/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/10/mind-i-do-or-do-not.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/4479508195425250284'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/4479508195425250284'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/10/mind-i-do-or-do-not.html' title='Mind I do or do not'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-2639821892960173804</id><published>2008-10-09T14:31:00.001+08:00</published><updated>2008-10-09T14:32:39.686+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Athena'/><title type='text'>Baby</title><summary type='text'>For photos of Puteri Athena Maimunah, head over here.Not for the faint-hearted ;)</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/2639821892960173804/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/10/baby.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/2639821892960173804'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/2639821892960173804'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/10/baby.html' title='Baby'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-6146987153132471145</id><published>2008-10-07T19:48:00.003+08:00</published><updated>2008-10-07T22:13:06.540+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='rant'/><title type='text'>I mean, really!</title><summary type='text'>I am not one to air my dirty laundry all over the Internet but there are just some things that really pisses me off and I just need to get it off my chest.But I need to begin with the bit that does not piss me off. My daughter, Puteri Athena Maimunah, was born on Friday 26 September 2008 at 7.57 p.m. She looks a whole lot like her father, which sends that saying that if you want your child to </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/6146987153132471145/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/10/i-mean-really.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/6146987153132471145'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/6146987153132471145'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/10/i-mean-really.html' title='I mean, really!'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-2695062482307812741</id><published>2008-09-23T08:24:00.002+08:00</published><updated>2008-09-23T08:33:30.133+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='quickie'/><title type='text'>Shallowness leads to? Think about it</title><summary type='text'>The way I see it, if you start a relationship based on a shallow reason, then most likely you'll go through a shallow relationship. It's worst when both parties in the relationship are too stupid. Well, if one is in it for greed and the other out of desperation...what exactly did you expect to end up with?The funniest part is when they get all self-righteous about who is right and who is wrong. </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/2695062482307812741/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/09/shallowness-leads-to-think-about-it.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/2695062482307812741'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/2695062482307812741'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/09/shallowness-leads-to-think-about-it.html' title='Shallowness leads to? Think about it'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-783707606505113963</id><published>2008-09-12T11:16:00.003+08:00</published><updated>2008-09-12T11:25:54.768+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='rant'/><title type='text'>*sigh*</title><summary type='text'>I know someone who has one of the most appalling behaviours ever.He doesn't close his mouth or cover it or even turn away when he sneezes or coughs. In fact, he seems to almost purposely turn to the nearest person when he sneezes or coughs. And when he gives anyone food of any kind, he has his finger either in the dish or on the food.I wonder whether he is just stupid or oblivious or plain </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/783707606505113963/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/09/sigh.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/783707606505113963'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/783707606505113963'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/09/sigh.html' title='*sigh*'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-2568445151667919687</id><published>2008-09-10T14:21:00.006+08:00</published><updated>2008-09-11T09:42:57.353+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Shook'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='work'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='reflections'/><title type='text'>Love - how do we know for sure?</title><summary type='text'>Sometimes in the course of teaching my students, I come across topics or thoughts that make me wonder as well.As a teacher, I try to help my students do and be good while being realistic enough to make them aware of the world they live in. Other than topics of homosexuality, they also asked me how I knew I loved my husband enough to marry him.This has always been something that was on my mind the</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/2568445151667919687/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/09/love-how-do-we-know-for-sure.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/2568445151667919687'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/2568445151667919687'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/09/love-how-do-we-know-for-sure.html' title='Love - how do we know for sure?'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-3785561499873147785</id><published>2008-08-23T11:46:00.002+08:00</published><updated>2008-08-23T11:50:23.179+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dreams'/><title type='text'>Why?</title><summary type='text'>Dear brain,What is with all the Dean Winchester dreams? The night before you had me married to him and last night, he was hanging around my house trying to get ideas from me on how to solve a supernatural problem while I tried to keep him out of sight of my family.Why? Why? I know I like Dean Winchester but I miss The Unit guys more. Why can't you give me covert ops dreams instead?Love always,Me</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/3785561499873147785/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/08/why.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/3785561499873147785'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/3785561499873147785'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/08/why.html' title='Why?'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-4377584221505950506</id><published>2008-08-22T17:49:00.007+08:00</published><updated>2008-08-22T18:24:54.966+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='rant'/><title type='text'>Ignorance is not bliss</title><summary type='text'>Today was the first time I went out for more than an hour since the holidays began. But I only went out for lunch then pay bills then went to buy stuff for my room. So it wasn't all selfish.But, going out during the day always gives me a bit of a culture shock. One reason is that when I'm at work, I'm at work for 8 hours straight. I don't know what daytime traffic is like. So during the holidays,</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/4377584221505950506/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/08/ignorance-is-not-bliss.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/4377584221505950506'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/4377584221505950506'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/08/ignorance-is-not-bliss.html' title='Ignorance is not bliss'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_Ts3wO3ZwNLk/SK6NK0hDXqI/AAAAAAAAAD8/U53Cs9mNVhY/s72-c/nazi_flag_375.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-4726469286371811577</id><published>2008-08-21T16:10:00.003+08:00</published><updated>2008-08-21T16:23:53.849+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='this and that'/><title type='text'>things done alone</title><summary type='text'>I've been doing a lot of things on my own this week. My family has gone to Singapore, partly for a holiday and mostly for an official function. The one sister left here seems more concerned with her friends and bringing unknown guys to our house. Most friends I know are either working or rather not do what I'd like to do. And besides, who wants to be seen with a pregnant friend?So, on Tuesday, I </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/4726469286371811577/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/08/things-done-alone.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/4726469286371811577'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/4726469286371811577'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/08/things-done-alone.html' title='things done alone'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-71375510783013447</id><published>2008-08-21T15:42:00.003+08:00</published><updated>2008-08-21T16:09:29.814+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='movies'/><title type='text'>Revenge</title><summary type='text'>Revenge makes such incredible movie fodder.I just got home from watching Death Race. I seriously thought it would be some Mad Max-esque racing movie. I also figured it would be mindless at best.Turns out I was wrong. It wasn't as predictable as some movies I've watched recently, although I did expect a few of the outcome and it was mad Max-esque. I thought the plot might be choppy but the writers</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/71375510783013447/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/08/revenge.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/71375510783013447'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/71375510783013447'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/08/revenge.html' title='Revenge'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-2851356528558656866</id><published>2008-08-17T21:40:00.002+08:00</published><updated>2008-08-17T21:56:58.517+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='this and that'/><title type='text'>Club-related</title><summary type='text'>For the past few months, I have had a lot of problems having dinner at the Club. Well, most of us know which Club I am talking about. But if you're not sure, feel free to come ask me.Anyway, to make a long story short, tonight I figured out a way to eat there and still keep my food inside me. I have to specially request that the food be free of garlic and have less oil in it. So far, one hour </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/2851356528558656866/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/08/club-related.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/2851356528558656866'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/2851356528558656866'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/08/club-related.html' title='Club-related'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-3422393484424600666</id><published>2008-08-16T12:51:00.002+08:00</published><updated>2008-08-16T12:54:04.180+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='movies'/><title type='text'>With an attitude</title><summary type='text'>I.Want.To.Watch.Death Race!!I don't care if it looks cheesy and uses an overused action formula.It has cars, guns, violence and Jason Statham.You need any other reason?</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/3422393484424600666/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/08/with-attitude.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/3422393484424600666'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/3422393484424600666'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/08/with-attitude.html' title='With an attitude'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-2738456885359255949</id><published>2008-08-16T11:56:00.002+08:00</published><updated>2008-08-16T11:58:33.443+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='this and that'/><title type='text'>Names please!</title><summary type='text'>This is what happens when you try to be a smart-aleck and try to give your kids unusual names in the hopes of them standing out.We'll see how they stand out when they get to school.You may like the name but it's the poor kid who has to live with it!</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/2738456885359255949/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/08/names-please.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/2738456885359255949'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/2738456885359255949'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/08/names-please.html' title='Names please!'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-8140791347085923137</id><published>2008-08-14T17:54:00.004+08:00</published><updated>2008-08-14T18:09:11.550+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='this and that'/><title type='text'>Reality</title><summary type='text'>First, I would like to say that anyone can correct me if I am wrong.But, I am getting tired of people making such a big thing out of something we can do very little about.For one, there was the price hike of petrol. We all know that we had it very good because our fuel was subsidised by the government. Now, just because the government, unlike some narrow-minded parties, need to think of the big </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/8140791347085923137/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/08/reality.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/8140791347085923137'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/8140791347085923137'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/08/reality.html' title='Reality'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Ts3wO3ZwNLk/SKQCsjVvBBI/AAAAAAAAADs/W-Ng9bSClik/s72-c/fuel+price.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-1645779375836641075</id><published>2008-08-12T11:54:00.003+08:00</published><updated>2008-08-12T12:04:03.948+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='this and that'/><title type='text'>Mango...finally</title><summary type='text'>Our favourite vodka provider launched its mango version in February and it reached Singapore to be launched in July. All I need now is to wait until it gets to Sarawak somehow. As much as I do want to drink it, I believe in moderation nowadays. So I'm quite, quite happy to have Shook and Will finish the bottle (with maybe some help from me) and then I can skidaddle home and add that lovely mango </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/1645779375836641075/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/08/mangofinally.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/1645779375836641075'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/1645779375836641075'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/08/mangofinally.html' title='Mango...finally'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Ts3wO3ZwNLk/SKEKktbycWI/AAAAAAAAADk/daYq6rNymr4/s72-c/absolut-mango.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-7419037130121377047</id><published>2008-08-12T09:01:00.003+08:00</published><updated>2008-08-12T09:19:57.535+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='this and that'/><title type='text'>Dawn breaking</title><summary type='text'>I started the book Breaking Dawn on Sunday and finished it last night.My verdict is still pretty much intact, as far as I am concerned. If you've read all 4 books, you'll find a repetition of plot and formula.The only thing I did like was the baby. I've always been fascinated by the possibility of a vampire child. There was a romance author (can't remember her name but I do have her books </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/7419037130121377047/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/08/dawn-breaking.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/7419037130121377047'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/7419037130121377047'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/08/dawn-breaking.html' title='Dawn breaking'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-5375122077515765664</id><published>2008-08-11T11:33:00.003+08:00</published><updated>2008-08-11T12:01:45.531+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='rant'/><title type='text'>Twi-what?</title><summary type='text'>I first heard of the Twilight series from Gette but I couldn't remember her take on it. Then I heard of it again from my students. Usually when it comes to my students, I'm just so happy they know what a book is for that I'm glad they're reading.Then one of them decided to impress me with the storyline. All I could think of is 'You are trying to impress the one person who has been obsessed with </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/5375122077515765664/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/08/twi-what.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/5375122077515765664'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/5375122077515765664'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/08/twi-what.html' title='Twi-what?'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-5681936579022950597</id><published>2008-08-04T12:42:00.003+08:00</published><updated>2008-08-04T13:59:32.050+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='movies'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Shook'/><title type='text'>Marathon</title><summary type='text'>Yesterday was another of those days when I really didn't want to be alone. Fortunately, Gette was there to rescue me from possible depression.  I always get down-in-the-dumps when Shook leaves home to go back to Bintulu. I try not to be but it tends to hit me at the worst possible moment. Like yesterday, after Gette very eagerly agreed to go watch X-Files and The Mummy, we went for the X-Files </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/5681936579022950597/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/08/marathon.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/5681936579022950597'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/5681936579022950597'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/08/marathon.html' title='Marathon'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-1776349787376647065</id><published>2008-07-15T11:48:00.003+08:00</published><updated>2008-07-15T12:55:19.700+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='this and that'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='movies'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Shook'/><title type='text'>Weekend</title><summary type='text'>My school gave us a long weekend after the Sports meet on Friday. So, knowing this, I flew off to Bintulu for the weekend and came back only yesterday.Whenever I mention Bintulu to anyone here, they grimace and ask 'What's in Bintulu?' really distastefully. To which I will reply as innocently as I can 'My husband.', which I hope conveys the message of 'You're not thinking very well, are you?'.</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/1776349787376647065/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/07/weekend.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/1776349787376647065'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/1776349787376647065'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/07/weekend.html' title='Weekend'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-4300428255495789802</id><published>2008-07-09T13:29:00.002+08:00</published><updated>2008-07-09T13:33:12.402+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='this and that'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='quickie'/><title type='text'>How to?</title><summary type='text'>I get a daily dose of how-to pages on my iGoogle every morning.I went to WikiHow today.And even they didn't have a solution to handling callousness.So what's a girl to do, except endure the hurt? And maybe walk away for awhile. </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/4300428255495789802/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/07/how-to.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/4300428255495789802'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/4300428255495789802'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/07/how-to.html' title='How to?'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-6967676130202721278</id><published>2008-07-07T13:24:00.003+08:00</published><updated>2008-07-07T13:50:34.054+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='this and that'/><title type='text'>Medicated and absent-minded</title><summary type='text'>A combination of the two can be really annoying.On Thursday, I woke up with a very sore throat. I struggled through teaching all day then drank lots of water before going for voice lessons that night.It's bad enough that I've become really absent-minded. When Gette told me that a song from the Broadway musical made it into the 10th anniversary cartoon, I was actually trying to remember which song</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/6967676130202721278/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/07/medicated-and-absent-minded.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/6967676130202721278'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/6967676130202721278'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/07/medicated-and-absent-minded.html' title='Medicated and absent-minded'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-4736438667589482958</id><published>2008-07-04T13:50:00.005+08:00</published><updated>2008-07-04T13:59:04.792+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='this and that'/><title type='text'>Insanity of my own making</title><summary type='text'>Want to know exactly what is that insanity of my own making? It's feet.No, I don't have a feet fetish. I have no idea what to appropriately call it.It is this. Whenever I see people wearing slippers or thongs or sandals or whatever that shows their toes, or whenever I go to people's houses and we all take off our shoes, I tend to look at people's feet.And what makes it worst is that, no matter </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/4736438667589482958/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/07/insanity-of-my-own-making.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/4736438667589482958'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/4736438667589482958'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/07/insanity-of-my-own-making.html' title='Insanity of my own making'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-3900880781861135952</id><published>2008-07-04T12:00:00.007+08:00</published><updated>2008-07-04T12:18:40.445+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='music'/><title type='text'>For lack of a title...</title><summary type='text'>Have you ever wondered why some people are able to take a comment and turn it into an argument? And then they get pissed off when you point out that you were merely stating a fact and not starting said argument. I've done the former but I've always managed to avoid the latter. Probably because with some people, especially those I regard as friends, I just prefer not to start an argument. It </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/3900880781861135952/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/07/for-lack-of-title.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/3900880781861135952'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/3900880781861135952'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/07/for-lack-of-title.html' title='For lack of a title...'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://bp2.blogger.com/_Ts3wO3ZwNLk/SG2iyllNkZI/AAAAAAAAADE/_5JMTyWw-C4/s72-c/human+again.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-4795359877887212039</id><published>2008-07-03T09:12:00.004+08:00</published><updated>2008-07-03T10:55:40.860+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='music'/><title type='text'>Beauty and the Beast</title><summary type='text'>I went to KL last weekend just to watch Beauty and the Beast:the Broadway musical.As far as musical goes, this one was good. I've watched more serious ones like Cats, Grease, Phantom of the Opera, Joseph and his Amazing Technicolour Dreamcoat and even M. Butterfly. So, to compare them to Beauty and the Beast would be unfair.Beauty and the Beast is geared for children although the children need to</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/4795359877887212039/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/07/beauty-and-beast.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/4795359877887212039'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/4795359877887212039'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/07/beauty-and-beast.html' title='Beauty and the Beast'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-6757407183274328428</id><published>2008-07-03T08:23:00.003+08:00</published><updated>2008-07-03T08:46:29.698+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='rant'/><title type='text'>A little grrr</title><summary type='text'>Would you like to know what frustrates the hell out of me? Well, I'll tell you.Ever since I got pregnant, I've been getting lots and lots of advice. Lots! Numerous! Some sound so ridiculous that I have a hard time not laughing out loud at them. Others are reasonable enough that I can accept, but not necessarily adopt.But the ones that get on my fricking nerves are the ones that tell me I should </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/6757407183274328428/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/07/little-grrr.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/6757407183274328428'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/6757407183274328428'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/07/little-grrr.html' title='A little grrr'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-8939155334186993768</id><published>2008-06-25T20:14:00.001+08:00</published><updated>2008-06-25T20:24:12.555+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='this and that'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='music'/><title type='text'>It's Maureen!</title><summary type='text'> I believe I've become a fan of Idina Menzel.I first recognised her voice in her single Brave. Then I realised she was in Rent, playing Maureen, and tonight I recognised her voice in Wicked, playing Elphaba. She acted in the movie version of Rent, reprising her role of Maureen. She also played Nancy in the movie Enchanted but she didn't sing.I just really find her voice very recognisable and I </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/8939155334186993768/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/06/idina-menzel-i-believe-ive-become-fan.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/8939155334186993768'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/8939155334186993768'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/06/idina-menzel-i-believe-ive-become-fan.html' title='It&apos;s Maureen!'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://bp2.blogger.com/_Ts3wO3ZwNLk/SGI4ZWtBLiI/AAAAAAAAAC0/KTkzXqtYVMY/s72-c/idina-menzel.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-1777901044423189970</id><published>2008-06-12T17:09:00.003+08:00</published><updated>2008-06-12T18:43:56.307+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Shook'/><title type='text'>Belated gooey-ness</title><summary type='text'>My youngest sister was commenting today about how I write more lovey-dovey things about Shook now compared to before.So my answer was simple. He never showed me what romance he was capable of before. When I asked him this a few days ago, he replied to the effect that there wasn't much point in making an effort in a relationship that might not come to much.When I thought about it, I saw the wisdom</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/1777901044423189970/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/06/belated-gooey-ness.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/1777901044423189970'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/1777901044423189970'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/06/belated-gooey-ness.html' title='Belated gooey-ness'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-7602814241690488107</id><published>2008-06-11T19:41:00.003+08:00</published><updated>2008-06-11T20:04:14.556+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='this and that'/><title type='text'>Cut off</title><summary type='text'>I have a case of the mind and heart are willing but the body is not.I really wanted to go out this evening and meet up with Shah and Rin and Ivan. But, as always during the first week of school, I am just too tired to go anywhere. All I want to do is sleep. And when I'm tired nowadays, I have a greater tendency to waddle.It doesn't help that the past two days my baby has been restless everything </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/7602814241690488107/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/06/cut-off.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/7602814241690488107'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/7602814241690488107'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/06/cut-off.html' title='Cut off'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-5732284000400453958</id><published>2008-06-10T09:31:00.003+08:00</published><updated>2008-06-10T11:13:40.945+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='this and that'/><title type='text'>Random thought again</title><summary type='text'>I think the live telecast of the Parliament sessions are good in many ways.It shows us what our representatives are truly doing, whether they are for the Government or not.It also shows us that not everything the Opposition bloggers write on their blogs are true. They say one thing but decide not to report everything. And yet they take the holier-than-thou road and say they speak more truths than</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/5732284000400453958/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/06/random-thought-again.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/5732284000400453958'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/5732284000400453958'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/06/random-thought-again.html' title='Random thought again'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-1595729306462975548</id><published>2008-06-06T11:19:00.001+08:00</published><updated>2008-06-06T11:24:48.586+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Shook'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Squee'/><title type='text'>Gestures unexpected</title><summary type='text'>When I first met Shook, the last thing I expected from him was to be a romantic. I mean, this was the guy who dissed weddings saying that everytime he gets invited to one, he'd either skip it or buy the newly-wed couple a guide book to divorce. And when I mention anything that is romantic, he'd say phht and change the subject. He also once told me he got freaked out when one of his ex-girlfriends</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/1595729306462975548/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/06/when-i-first-met-shook-last-thing-i.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/1595729306462975548'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/1595729306462975548'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/06/when-i-first-met-shook-last-thing-i.html' title='Gestures unexpected'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-142528749026186681</id><published>2008-06-05T12:33:00.002+08:00</published><updated>2008-06-05T12:36:18.076+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='this and that'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Shook'/><title type='text'>Things fall into place</title><summary type='text'>Whenever Shook comes home, we always go visit the site where our new house is being built. When I first saw it go up, I thought the place was cosy and small. Now that they've cleared up most of the rubble, I have come to realise that our house is huge.It looks relatively small from the outside but the kitchen and dining room takes on the entire back part of the house. Our master bedroom is the </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/142528749026186681/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/06/things-fall-into-place-whenever-shook.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/142528749026186681'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/142528749026186681'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/06/things-fall-into-place-whenever-shook.html' title='Things fall into place'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-1522988031678426871</id><published>2008-06-04T09:29:00.002+08:00</published><updated>2008-06-04T11:43:43.072+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='cadets'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Shook'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Academy'/><title type='text'>Movie 'tie-in'</title><summary type='text'>The cadets at Shook's academy were introduced or re-introduced to Top Gun some months back. By Shook, of course.Regardless of the fact that this is the movie that got me all gooey over pilots and even more buttery over Tomcats. F-14s I think they are. I know. I'm lousy with technicalities but I know I love those jets and that's all there is to it.Now, the closest I've been to being the Kelly </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/1522988031678426871/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/06/movie-tie-in-cadets-at-shoooks-academy.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/1522988031678426871'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/1522988031678426871'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/06/movie-tie-in-cadets-at-shoooks-academy.html' title='Movie &apos;tie-in&apos;'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-7614283453139728868</id><published>2008-05-25T08:06:00.005+08:00</published><updated>2008-05-25T08:16:47.450+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='this and that'/><title type='text'>What to do?</title><summary type='text'>I need more books to read! I just finished Lorenzo Carcaterra's Chasers and am about to start on Dean Koontz's Frankenstein book 2. I still have Eric Haney's Inside the Delta Force but it's not actually light reading.I had also planned to type out all my own stories so there would be less risk of losing them. Right now, they're in hard copy, handwritten. But when I look at the piles of notebooks </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/7614283453139728868/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/05/what-to-do.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/7614283453139728868'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/7614283453139728868'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/05/what-to-do.html' title='What to do?'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-4567857264957097967</id><published>2008-05-24T07:24:00.003+08:00</published><updated>2008-05-24T07:34:07.430+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='this and that'/><title type='text'>Better things to do</title><summary type='text'>I woke up automatically this morning and wondered if Shook was okay.Then I read Chasers by Lorenzo Carcaterra for a while. After three shooting scenes and two cold-blooded murders, I decided.I decided that some questions in the Universe are just not meant to be answered by us mortals. And I have better things to do with my life.So with that, I am truly, really going to let it go and move on. If </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/4567857264957097967/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/05/better-things-to-do.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/4567857264957097967'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/4567857264957097967'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/05/better-things-to-do.html' title='Better things to do'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-3058123387537236387</id><published>2008-05-23T16:08:00.003+08:00</published><updated>2008-05-23T17:32:06.882+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Shook'/><title type='text'>Background check</title><summary type='text'>To understand my annoyance, you need to know the background. So, after reading this, you tell me if I'm justified or if someone is lying to me.A few months ago, Shook called me talking constantly about this female instructor he met. So, despite my own misgivings I asked about her, why she's there. The normal things. He told me and after I told him my fears, he assured me that he thinks of her as </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/3058123387537236387/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/05/background-check.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/3058123387537236387'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/3058123387537236387'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/05/background-check.html' title='Background check'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-6602162899436831464</id><published>2008-05-22T11:10:00.004+08:00</published><updated>2008-05-22T14:23:38.279+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Emotions'/><title type='text'>Trust and choice part deux</title><summary type='text'>I trusted. My husband trusted.Bitch snake screwed with the wrong people.I'm not going to bother just yet but an animal deserves being clinically treated. So I will. I want to know what goes on in this animal's brain.Why animal? Because nothing human would behave this way.So I'll treat her like the animal she is. To be studied and prodded. If she gets humiliated and ridiculed, no skin off my nose.</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/6602162899436831464/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/05/trust-and-choice-part-deux.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/6602162899436831464'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/6602162899436831464'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/05/trust-and-choice-part-deux.html' title='Trust and choice part deux'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-6940443147042979006</id><published>2008-05-20T15:41:00.002+08:00</published><updated>2008-05-20T15:52:05.079+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Shook'/><title type='text'>Trust and choice</title><summary type='text'>I am, by my very own admission, a sucker for the repentant, the lost, the lonely and the sad.So, what do I do? I used to get attracted to them under a misguided sense of tryng to help. Either that or I started to think I loved them.Now that I love Shook, I don't share that love but I do stil try to help him and his friends. because helping his friends alleviates his worry and his hurt. Even if I </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/6940443147042979006/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/05/trust-and-choice.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/6940443147042979006'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/6940443147042979006'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/05/trust-and-choice.html' title='Trust and choice'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-2091047666176744865</id><published>2008-05-19T11:41:00.002+08:00</published><updated>2008-05-19T11:54:39.505+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Emotions'/><title type='text'>5-minute glee</title><summary type='text'>Let me make one thing clear. I have never had anything anyone else wants before. Oh, they may want my life because of my parents being able to afford many things and the fact that I have a very good and easy understanding relationship with my parents. But those are not mine to give. I earned them fair and square and my parents' riches aren't exactly mine. I'm just at the right place at the right </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/2091047666176744865/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/05/5-minute-glee.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/2091047666176744865'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/2091047666176744865'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/05/5-minute-glee.html' title='5-minute glee'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-9027166670985141171</id><published>2008-05-15T09:36:00.003+08:00</published><updated>2008-05-15T10:09:13.163+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='rant'/><title type='text'>Everything connects</title><summary type='text'>My doctor tried to give me sick leave today. While thinking of the greater good, I refused to take the sick leave. While driving back to school, I wondered if I was wise to do so. Then I figured, who cares? Nobody cares so why should I? Nobody is going to thank me for not missing school despite the fact that I just made things easier for them. Nobody cares whether I'm sick. Some people might even</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/9027166670985141171/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/05/everything-connects.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/9027166670985141171'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/9027166670985141171'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/05/everything-connects.html' title='Everything connects'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-6908219343069903279</id><published>2008-05-09T11:03:00.003+08:00</published><updated>2008-05-09T11:13:10.360+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dreams'/><title type='text'>Dreamland again</title><summary type='text'>As I said earlier, I tend to dream or, at least, I tend to remember my dreams these days.Last night's dream was a little bizarre. I was actually in a warehouse with some people I did not know. One of them was a serial killer. I remember we had to do something. We actually walked by a wall with holes at various height in it. One of the guys I was with peeked through one hole and declared he could </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/6908219343069903279/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/05/dreamland-again.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/6908219343069903279'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/6908219343069903279'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/05/dreamland-again.html' title='Dreamland again'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-6365965185435327718</id><published>2008-05-09T10:31:00.002+08:00</published><updated>2008-05-09T10:59:52.029+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dreams'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Shook'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Supernatural'/><title type='text'>Dreamland</title><summary type='text'>I have two bedrooms in my house now. One is mine and always has been. the other is one I share with Shook when he comes home. Usually, when he goes back to Bintulu, I migrate back to my own room. But, for the past few days, I've been staying put in our room. I realised that I sleep better and I don't wake up when I need to roll around on the bed. And, looking at the bed covers every morning, it's</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/6365965185435327718/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/05/dreamland.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/6365965185435327718'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/6365965185435327718'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/05/dreamland.html' title='Dreamland'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-1206348895110393213</id><published>2008-05-06T15:04:00.002+08:00</published><updated>2008-05-06T15:15:24.373+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='reflections'/><title type='text'>Hope anyone?</title><summary type='text'>Albert Einstein once defined insanity as doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.Even if we don't regard it completely as insanity, a lot of times we still realise the futility of it. Yet, why do we do it?Why do we choose to give people the benefit of the doubt despite knowing full well that they will make the same mistakes again?Why do we still go help our </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/1206348895110393213/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/05/hope-anyone.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/1206348895110393213'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/1206348895110393213'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/05/hope-anyone.html' title='Hope anyone?'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-9109187757787481303</id><published>2008-04-25T10:16:00.003+08:00</published><updated>2008-04-25T10:27:53.594+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='vacation'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Shook'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='family'/><title type='text'>Goody!</title><summary type='text'>Take into consideration that I get unusually depressed whenever Shook's not around, everyone notices that I'm grinning a lot more nowadays.That's because I'm going to KL today. And because Shook's already in KL. And because when I talked to him yesterday and this morning, he sounded happier than he has ever sounded in awhile. And also because the baby lets me eat nowadays but still has a cap on </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/9109187757787481303/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/04/goody.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/9109187757787481303'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/9109187757787481303'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/04/goody.html' title='Goody!'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-3599381175916359798</id><published>2008-04-10T11:58:00.004+08:00</published><updated>2008-04-10T12:32:17.042+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Emotions'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Shook'/><title type='text'>Imagine this</title><summary type='text'>Imagine having heightened senses of smell and sound.Imagine being surrounded by emotional and noisy teenagers whose bodies are also in the midst of changes therefore making their chemical make-up very erratic.Imagine having problems sitting for too long and standing for too long.Imagine having to sit in a really uncomfortable plastic chair while doing work that needs to be done.Imagine having to </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/3599381175916359798/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/04/imagine-this.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/3599381175916359798'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/3599381175916359798'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/04/imagine-this.html' title='Imagine this'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-735063865556866789</id><published>2008-04-02T12:52:00.002+08:00</published><updated>2008-04-02T12:56:44.080+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='this and that'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Shook'/><title type='text'>Discovery</title><summary type='text'>I have discovered something odd about myself these past days.I don't get morning sickness and I don't get cranky much. As long as I stay away from garlic (like all good vampires!), I am fine.But for food to stay put, I have discovered that I can only eat what Shook likes to eat. I have got a miniature Shook growing inside me.(Was it just me and my state of being or did that last remark sound </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/735063865556866789/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/04/discovery.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/735063865556866789'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/735063865556866789'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/04/discovery.html' title='Discovery'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-4751473199811309334</id><published>2008-03-26T09:18:00.002+08:00</published><updated>2008-03-26T10:12:48.257+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Shook'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='reflections'/><title type='text'>Change</title><summary type='text'>I think I'm ready for a change. Or maybe it's Shook's child talking. And no, contrary to anyone's belief, I am not using the child as a convenient excuse. Although you do have to admit that I am acting rather strange a lot nowadays.I have been angry and in despair and depressed the last few weeks. But yesterday, after wallowing half the day, I got angry at myself for being stupid and sad. So I </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/4751473199811309334/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/03/change.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/4751473199811309334'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/4751473199811309334'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/03/change.html' title='Change'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-4211152144966245459</id><published>2008-03-23T18:07:00.003+08:00</published><updated>2008-03-23T18:15:19.248+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='this and that'/><title type='text'>Food Fight</title><summary type='text'>This is a very impressive video. I had a good time trying to figure out the people involved as well as the war that was depicted.It's interesting if you know your culinary country of origin and world history.Enjoy this. I know I did.Food Fight video</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/4211152144966245459/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/03/food-fight.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/4211152144966245459'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/4211152144966245459'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/03/food-fight.html' title='Food Fight'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-1231039901828621592</id><published>2008-03-23T11:42:00.002+08:00</published><updated>2008-03-23T11:44:27.363+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='rant'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='ramble'/><title type='text'>Air!!</title><summary type='text'>My reaction to people usually depends either on my first impression or after careful evaluation within a set period of time. Sounds contradictory, doesn't it?Do you ever notice that the most amusing tales of people usually already gives you an idea of what they really are? I mean, stupid people do stupid things. Careful people do things slowly and with much thought. Selfish people can't get </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/1231039901828621592/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/03/my-reaction-to-people-usually-depends.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/1231039901828621592'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/1231039901828621592'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/03/my-reaction-to-people-usually-depends.html' title='Air!!'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-8355263498075385826</id><published>2008-03-13T11:38:00.001+08:00</published><updated>2008-03-13T11:39:56.893+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='meme'/><title type='text'>I've seen 132 of these 168 movies</title><summary type='text'>I got this from Gette.Put "I've seen ____ of these 168 movies" in the subject line and repost. If you've seen over 85 movies, you have no life. Mark the ones you've seen. There are 168 movies on this list.(x) Rocky Horror Picture Show(x) Grease(x) Pirates of the Caribbean( ) Boondock Saints(x) Fight Club(x) Starsky and Hutch(x) Neverending Story(x) Blazing Saddles(x) Airplane(x) BraveheartTotal: </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/8355263498075385826/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/03/ive-seen-132-of-these-168-movies-i-got.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/8355263498075385826'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/8355263498075385826'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/03/ive-seen-132-of-these-168-movies-i-got.html' title='I&apos;ve seen 132 of these 168 movies'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-2622133357092544775</id><published>2008-03-10T14:55:00.004+08:00</published><updated>2008-03-10T17:27:05.736+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='this and that'/><title type='text'>Huh?</title><summary type='text'>I have learnt so many things about the big event that just happened. So many things which are not privy to outsiders yet could so change the way things are in our state. But knowing as I do, I still go voting. I like how things are slowly changing and I hope for the better. And one thing I hope everyone learns from this is that being too full of yourself and being too proud does not serve any </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/2622133357092544775/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/03/huh.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/2622133357092544775'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/2622133357092544775'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/03/huh.html' title='Huh?'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-6140567922277314394</id><published>2008-03-05T14:15:00.002+08:00</published><updated>2008-03-05T14:40:34.803+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='ramble'/><title type='text'>Today</title><summary type='text'>For some unknown reason, I decided to update my blogroll. I took some sites out because they are hardly ever updated. I updated, renamed and "relocated" some others. I've decided to just name the sites according to their owners' names because at the rate my memory is going, I forgot half of the websites I had on the roll.I'm supposed to do work but I get a wee bit nauseous looking down too long. </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/6140567922277314394/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/03/today.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/6140567922277314394'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/6140567922277314394'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/03/today.html' title='Today'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-1056880028703453208</id><published>2008-02-25T18:12:00.001+08:00</published><updated>2008-02-25T18:13:59.387+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='this and that'/><title type='text'>Election</title><summary type='text'>It's that time of year again.And again, I am reminded of why I can barely tolerate it. But my father enjoys the life so who am I to expect any less?But when I hardly see my parents and I don't know whether they're coming and going AND I have to take responsibility of my sisters, I find it very difficult to not get angry with the area my father is in.But he loves what he's doing and he's good at </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/1056880028703453208/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/02/elections-its-that-time-of-year-again.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/1056880028703453208'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/1056880028703453208'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/02/elections-its-that-time-of-year-again.html' title='Election'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-3652160379785000533</id><published>2008-02-25T17:55:00.001+08:00</published><updated>2008-02-25T17:55:34.244+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='this and that'/><title type='text'>Teochew...</title><summary type='text'>I've been watching a chinese series on ntv7 the past few weeks. I'm not watching it seriously but I just let it play in the background. The thing is the series is in Teochew and I'm purposely only listening so I could see just how my Teochew is going. So far, the challenge is to remember that the Teochew spoken in the show is pure Teochew and not the mixed up version we have here in Kuching. But </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/3652160379785000533/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/02/ive-been-watching-chinese-series-on.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/3652160379785000533'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/3652160379785000533'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/02/ive-been-watching-chinese-series-on.html' title='Teochew...'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-6978128364716161455</id><published>2008-02-22T17:53:00.001+08:00</published><updated>2008-02-22T17:54:01.997+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Supernatural'/><title type='text'>Fresh Blood</title><summary type='text'>Supernatural is up to its old bag of tricks again.In season 1, there were two guest stars who were well-known to all Buffy and Angel fans - Julie Benz and Amy Acker.I just watched an episode in season 3 and they brought in Mercedes McNab. The funny thing is she played a vampire who didn't know she had been turned.I find it amusing.Now, if only David Boreanaz or Sarah Michelle Gellar would show up</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/6978128364716161455/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/02/supernatural-is-up-to-its-old-bag-of.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/6978128364716161455'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/6978128364716161455'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/02/supernatural-is-up-to-its-old-bag-of.html' title='Fresh Blood'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-214479102774896181</id><published>2008-02-19T17:45:00.001+08:00</published><updated>2008-02-19T17:46:27.068+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='this and that'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='reflections'/><title type='text'>Death hovers over us all - part deux</title><summary type='text'>The granduncle I mentioned earlier passed away two days ago. He was suffering from lung cancer.I went to the house after work. Luckily, it was after the funeral was over. It's not I didn't want to go. The part of me that was brought up properly was willing to go. I'm just not very good with seeing people in despair. It affects me. I might not feel the pain in my heart but I will start crying. I </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/214479102774896181/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/02/death-hovers-over-us-all-part-deux.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/214479102774896181'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/214479102774896181'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/02/death-hovers-over-us-all-part-deux.html' title='Death hovers over us all - part deux'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-1006761081806309785</id><published>2008-02-14T09:15:00.002+08:00</published><updated>2008-02-14T09:30:43.534+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='this and that'/><title type='text'>Death hovers over us all</title><summary type='text'>My aunt passed away two days ago. She was an aunt I was not very close to. I suppose because she was rather emotionally distant from us. Even while I was growing up and went to live with her and her sister when my parents were away, I felt more loved by her sister than by her.My only reaction to the news of her death was 'How am I going to tell Mummy?'. I've been through too much with my mom to </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/1006761081806309785/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/02/death-hovers-over-us-all.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/1006761081806309785'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/1006761081806309785'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/02/death-hovers-over-us-all.html' title='Death hovers over us all'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9456632.post-6615095850647165087</id><published>2008-02-10T22:30:00.000+08:00</published><updated>2008-02-10T22:32:12.446+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='rant'/><title type='text'>What a crock of horseshit!!</title><summary type='text'>Would you be in a good mood if someone you don't trust is in your house? And invited there by your sibling?So I am not in a good mood. Want me to act all snobbish? After this, I'm going to check if anything is stolen.Why do I not trust? Let's see.Fucknut has no job, refuses to go find a job because he's too lazy to get off his big fucking ass. Oh, and he's scared of people bullying him at his </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/feeds/6615095850647165087/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/02/would-you-be-in-good-mood-if-someone.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/6615095850647165087'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9456632/posts/default/6615095850647165087'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://velvetraven.blogspot.com/2008/02/would-you-be-in-good-mood-if-someone.html' title='What a crock of horseshit!!'/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01951915920362449445</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Fariah/Missing_You-1.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
